Divorce is one of the saddest things that happen in our society nowadays. Usually it doesn't just affect the two people in the relationship.It also involves their children as well.The sad thing about this is that it could have been avoided.  If the couple had just sought out some marriage counseling they could have prevented [...]

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Sports and learning how to succed with it is funny indeed.you can take someone who is a great athlete, yet they can’t make it.  Then you can have an average athlete who excels beyond expectations.At first look it doesn’t seem explainable.But when you take a closer examination you see the real reason some have success [...]

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Asking for others’ help is one of the toughest things that a couple will do when experiencing marriage problems.  Namely, looking to a marriage counselor to help you.But once you already have the courage to go seek help how do you look for someone that can really help.That is a tough question to ask.  But [...]

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One thing that all people have is their emotions.Some people have the tendency to display more of their emtions in public.Some emotions can be good when displayed like happiness.Some people display emotions such as happiness and excitement and laughter.Other people show anger and sadness more. Most people experience these emotions but sometimes they get out [...]

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In life and any type of relationship you will find conflict.It's obvious sometimes there will some that are worse off than others.In a marriage relationship these fightng can cause some bad consequences.The toughest part is being able to know when is the right time to seek counsel. Because you don't to overreact and grab any [...]

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One thing that all people have is their emotions.Some people tend to display more of these emotions just like an extrovert.Some emotions can be good when displayed like happiness.Some people show emotions like happiness, excitement, or laughter.  Others show emotions of sadness or anger. Most people experience these emotions but sometimes they get out of [...]

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One of the unfortunate but natural things that happen in a marriage is fighting.I am sure that there has never been a couple that has never fought.The unfortunate thing is when the fights grow bigger than what it should just be.  Because it is natural that people will have differences.But what makes it unfortunate is [...]

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One of the unfortunate things that happen in marriages are fights.I am pretty sure that there are no couple in the world who does not fight or argue.  The unfortunate part comes when those fights get bigger than it should be.It is just natural for a couple to argue sometimes and have differences.But what makes [...]

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Whether counseling is helpful or not to a marriage is one of the concern of most couples. Whether it is with family problems.Or with a personal problem.Or especially in relationship problems.After all does anyone want their problems to be public.Plus you also have to shell out money for it.
How counseling can help relationships is [...]

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Going through marriage counseling is a tough decision for a couple to make. It is a decision that makes something private go public.That is the reason why it is hard to do. But going through it may be the way for couples to rebuild their broken relationships.A broken relationship can be healed.A relationship that is [...]

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Both anger and depression are emotions that can be bad for someone.But they still seem to be different from each other.One of them can be seen. While the other emotion is unnoticeable.
As a family therapist San Diego I have seen both emotions. Both of them if too serious need addressing.These are issues which one [...]

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One of the hardest things for us humans to do is ask for help. It matters not what the issue is.In general we want to be the one to figure things out all the time.That includes any problems with relationships we have.But when it comes to important thing like relationships, you have to be able [...]

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As people we have been blessed with things such as emotions.  We have positive emotions.But we also experience emotions that are negative.In this piece, let’s examine some emotions that can be negative at times.
Why they are two emotions we need to take a closer look at is because these emotions are ones that may [...]

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All's fair in love and war.What can that saying really be saying?  Are they saying there is a similarity between the two?  I am not sure if that is what they are saying but there are similarities between the two.
The things that are the same I guess are when the two turns from love [...]

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One of the toughest problems a person has to experience in life is problems in marriage. It can affect many things.Your job, your children, and even your health.  It has such a strong emotional reactions it isn't a surprise.
Usually it doesn't happen overnight.  Problems in a marriage usually grow and develop.It is when it [...]

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One of the great aspects our society is the sports we enjoy.  From professional athletes all the way down to little kids.  We get to enjoy it all.One aspect of all sports though, no matter how talented you are, it’s going to take the mental aspect as well.
What do I mean by that?We have [...]

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One of the unique things we experience as humans are emotions. Emotions are very powerful parts of being human.Emotions that we experience like joy, love, anger or even pain. are very strong feelings we experience.  But often times it is because we are so emotional we can get into trouble.
I would like to address [...]

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Whether you are an amateur or a professional you should know how important sports psychology is.  The mind is so crucial to success in sports.With the amount of pressure there is to make it, it will require more than athletic talent.It is how good you get yourself ready mentally that will be the important factor.
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One of the best things we get to experience in our lives is relationships.From the wonderful experiences of family relationships to love relationships it is great.  But sometimes a great relationship can turn sour.  What was once a source of joy and excitement can become hard and painful.
I have seen this first hand helping [...]

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Life, a lot of great times, but there will be some tough times as well.Kind of ironic that your source of many joys and happiness can also be what causes great pains.
Where else can you find and have experiences that are joyous as love and friendship.Or the happiness of having friends and family.So numerous [...]

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